Are You Too Picky? 🚫

Is “I’m Just Picky” keeping you single? 🚫💔🙅‍♀️

It’s time we stop using “I’m Just Too Picky” as an excuse for our inability to find the right partner.

I get it, you have a specific idea of what you want in a partner and you don't want to settle for anything less. But let me ask you this, have you ever considered that being too picky is just another way of saying that you're judgmental?

As a dating coach, I often hear people say that they're just too picky when it comes to dating, but research suggests that we're not as selective as we think we are. Dating apps have made us more selective, but in real life, we're more likely to give someone a chance, even if they don't quite meet our criteria.

Think about it, we might reject someone on a dating app for weird reasons like their favorite movie or their height, but if we met them in real life and had chemistry, we wouldn't care about those things. The goal shouldn't be to find the perfect person but to find an amazing fit, someone who fits us well.

We should focus on building a healthy and supportive partnership rather than searching for someone who looks good on paper. Don't let fate or destiny make the decision for you; exercise your agency and make a choice.

Choosing and committing to something gives it meaning and imbues it with beauty. So let's stop using being "too picky" as an excuse and start being open to giving people a chance.

Remember, being too picky can keep you from finding a great partner. Instead, be open to meeting people, even if they don't fit all of your criteria. You might be surprised at who you connect with and how much you enjoy their company.

So, let's ditch the "I'm too picky" excuse and start focusing on finding an amazing fit. The right person might be just around the corner, waiting for you to give them a chance.

So Let’s Stop Using Being “Too Picky” as an Excuse and Start Being Open to Giving People a Chance. 🙌❤️👩‍❤️‍👨💑💞💪