How to be AMAZING on Dates

👋🏼 Looking to make a great first ✨ impression ✨ on a date? Here are 3️⃣ steps to help you be unforgettable 🫶.

Firstly, it's important to remember that this is your date, and your unique personality and experiences are what make you interesting. Remember that he’s probably just as nervous as you. So don't overthink it!

Step 1️⃣ is “Act From Familiarity & Depth” Instead of asking generic, small-talk questions like "How are you?", try to start the conversation by discussing something specific that happened that day or week, like an exciting event or a recent movie you saw. Share as if you’ve known him for years and get deep with the familiarity. Stay away from the 1-word answers and surface-level talk. Sharing your feelings about everyday experiences can make for a more natural and organic conversation.

Step 2️⃣ is "Connect, Don't Coach." When someone shares something vulnerable with you, it's important to connect with them rather than giving unsolicited advice. Instead of trying to "fix" their problems, simply acknowledge and understand their feelings. This will create a more authentic and attractive connection.

Step 3️⃣ is "Be Present." Engage in active listening by asking follow-up questions and truly being present in the moment. Being fully present in the conversation will make your date feel seen and heard, and can lead to a deeper and more meaningful connection.

Remember, being yourself is the most important thing. Don't worry about following these techniques perfectly, but rather use them as a guide to help enhance your conversation and connection. Have fun! 🎉